Wednesday, August 2, 2017

Living the Dream Series - 1st Edition Kimberly Wright

Welcome! Today is the first in a new series entitled Living the Dream!!!

These are women who had a dream of doing what they loved......and making a little money in the process.  They dreamed.  They acted on it.  And we are going to hear how it all happened.  I have a set of questions that each of these ladies has answered.  So we will get to hear from their individual perspectives.

First up, Kimberly Wright.



Kim is super talented.  She was born in Guys, TN and is the baby of 6 sisters and one brother.  She is married to Keith and has two boys of her own Braxton and Kendall.  She has a degree in mathematics and works at NASA's Marshall Space Flight Center in the CIO Office as a Budget and IT Specialist.  She is super creative, can make something out of nothing, full of energy and loves weddings and event planning.  Hence, her Event Planning Business, Elegant Creations, was born.

Now let's hear from Kim in her own words.

How did you get into running your own business?
The business grew out of my love for creativity, helping others and bringing to life beautiful ideas, visions and dreams. When my sons were younger, I loved planning theme birthday parties each year. After they hit the teenage years, they were no longer interested in having the parties. During this same time, I would hear someone talking about their upcoming special events, both big and small, and then realized I was already designing and planning everything in my mind. I realized that I still had an interest in coordinating, planning and executing events. I took on assisting a bride with her wedding planning and many more weddings followed by referrals only. Elegant Creations began to blossom.

What was your greatest challenge?

Timing!! As a wife, mother, full-time worker, active church member, and serving in many other roles, I had to determine which events to accept or decline. These decisions were based on the “known” active schedule of my family members and my own life.


How do you balance it all?

I live by my calendar and planner. Because I have always lived a very full and active life, it is my norm. Often, people look at my schedule and ask, “How do you do it?” It’s only then I realize I operate at a different level than others. So I review my calendar each day to see what activities I am committed to supporting in the upcoming week(s) or months. This keeps me organized and on task.

What is the favorite thing about what you doing?
I love taking the style and vision of the client and then designing a unique plan for their special day.

Did you have mentors, formal training or did you just learn as you went along?

A lot of my knowledge comes from on the job experience and a blessed gift from God. I enjoy attending and watching anything related to weddings so I have fabulous mentors in the business (they don’t know they’re mentoring me) such as Preston Bailey, Mindy Weiss, Bryan Rafanelli, and David Tutera. I have also participated in several hands-on training courses and currently participating in the professional event planning certification process. I do not want to become trapped into thinking that “good enough” is good enough. God created me for more than just average, so I’m always looking for new ideas, techniques and designs.

What's the key to making your business work?

You must be passionate about every aspect of the process. If you’re not, it will show. This business requires both patience, spontaneity and commitment. You must be flexible with your schedule because you might lose the ability to make long-term personal plans if there is a contract in place. As a professional, you must be assertive and firm when needed, yet unfailingly polite, while maintaining a pleasant disposition and a sense of humor. And you must have the ability to stay on top of your schedule, your daily tasks and all of the tangible files and supplies that go along with successfully executing a wedding.

What's coming up for you that you are looking forward to?

I just completed an elegant wedding on a farm for 200 guests. We were blessed with a beautiful unseasonably warm early March day to have an outside ceremony and tented reception. LOVED IT!

I’m excited about a December wedding being held in downtown Huntsville in two areas of the Museum of Arts. The beautiful City of Huntsville Christmas lights and decoration will be a perfect backdrop for winter nuptials.

What advice do you have for a woman thinking of stepping out and starting to live her own dream?
Go for it!! Too often, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut in life, doing the same thing the same way every day. But if we are going to live at our best, we should constantly be growing and sharpening our interests and our skills. So spend time strategically planning your goals and building your brand. When you step out, it’s helpful to have a faithful crew, band of believers, and a village, to be there to provide moral and physical support. I have been coordinating weddings for years and from the beginning I have had great friends who provided great support towards the business’ success.
My sons are now teenagers and they along with my husband are an integral part of the Elegant Creation design team as well. The key to your success will come from loving the business, networking, and knowing how you can grow while helping the business to grow.

Here's a look at some of Kim's beautiful work




Wow! Thanks so much sharing with us today, Kim.  I am so glad you are living your dream.  The rest of us are enjoying the ride with you and wish you continued great success. It is an honor to watch you make the world more beautiful.

Monday, July 31, 2017

The Challenge of Love

Last week was an exceptionally busy week.  I found myself double booked on a couple of occasions and triple booked at one point.  So, yes, that adds stress.  Yes, that takes me a bit out of my ability to take things in stride, to smile in spite of and unfortunately to let my light shine as it should.

I had the opportunity to teach some children at my church in a Creative Workshop where we taught them Biblical principles and then did a creative activity to bring the idea home.  Another lady in my church birthed the idea and asked if I would help out.  One of the sections I had the opportunity to teach was on Joy.  Seems simple enough, right?  There are lots of Bible verses on  rejoicing and being joyful all throughout the Bible........like these for instance:

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

When anxiety was great within me,
your consolation brought me joy. Psalm 94:19

A person finds joy in giving an apt reply—
and how good is a timely word! Proverbs 15:23

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know the testing of your faith produces perseverance.  James 1:2-3

fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.  For the joy set before Him He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2



Ahhh, that last verse.  When we read that last verse together we talked about all the things Christ endured on the cross, the pure hatred thrown at Him, the physical attacks, the emotional attacks, the beatings, the hostility, the anguish beyond our ability to comprehend.....yet He endured because of the joy set before Him, because of  His Father's will and love for us, because He would not respond in kind to those who treated Him so horrifically.  He would not become His accusers and attackers.  He would not change who He was even though He was immersed in a situation of hatred, lies and injustice.

So I am teaching the kids, talking to them about knowing who you are and how you want to treat people.  We are talking about how some kids are mean and pick on them, how groups make fun of other groups, how they are sometimes the subject of unwarranted hatred, lies and injustice.  And I am telling them to remember how Christ would not allow anyone, anything or any circumstance to change Him, how we need to behave like that, how we need to love in spite of, when we don't think the person has earned it or deserves it we should still love.....

and then the truth of the situation hits my heart 

who really needs this lesson? is it these kids? is it me?

I am afraid the answer is both.  I was speaking to myself as much as I was speaking to them.  It is not easy.  There are challenges in always responding with love.  But clearly something we should all prayerfully aspire to.  I often fall short here.  I am a lover of justice and I also mistakenly think I have some right to make the just/unjust determination.

Thankful for the opportunity to teach God's word.  After all, I am my best student.  No one learns more than I learn.


Friday, July 28, 2017

Friday Finds

So just a few things to check out this week.  Pretty soon  I am going to kick into gift idea mode so today let's continue to focus on us.

I think this is a cute t-shirt and oh the color choices......

Yep, this one comes in a slew of solids and even some stripes.   Sixteen total color options.  And best of all it is only $17.90. Think wearing this the rest of the summer and layering it in the fall.

Now if you are looking for something to layer over this.  Check out this cardigan.  I tried this on and loved the feel and the fit.

Main Image - Halogen® V-Neck Merino Wool Cardigan (Regular & Petite)
Halogen Cardigan

And speaking of color options......you get nine here.  It's a true sign of a good product when they make it in a zillion colors because people love it so much.  People obviously love it because it has 4.6 stars.

Now on Nordstromrack they are offering an additional 50% off clearance dresses and an additional 25% off other clearance thru July 30th.

The Pants Store has marked down several spring and summer shoes......if you are still in the market or one of those people who can forecast what you want to wear next year this may be a good stop for you.

On a non retail note....Wednesday night we went to see Hairspray the Musical at Lee High School.  I must say I was very pleasantly surprised.  It was done very well.  Amazed at the local talent.  This weekend is the last weekend it will be showing.  If you have some time or looking for something fun, I highly recommend.  Our tickets were $20.

Have a great weekend, ladies.  I will see you back here on Monday which believe it or not will be August eve.  Wowser August already?! We'll be pulling out the boots soon girls.

Tuesday, July 25, 2017

July 25th It's a Wrap

We wait for this day as if it is a national holiday.  We honestly spend from Dec 26th to July 24th preparing for it.  We shop.  We gather supplies.  We make lists. We barely sleep the night before.  It is a big deal.  For as long as I can remember we have spent July 25th totally immersed in the Christmas Spirit.

To make it feel more like Christmas we crank the air to an all time low.  We wear our Christmas PJs.

We start the morning with a fun breakfast.


Gather all our supplies.



 We make a big pot of chili and other festive snacks.

By the way, that is my new Instant Pot that I bought on Amazon Prime Day.....so far I am really enjoying it.

When we first started this tradition QVC would be running all their new Christmas merchandise and we would wrap and order more stuff.  This day was no different but we did get a  Christmas movies in also.  Thank you, Hallmark, for embracing the whole Christmas in July philosophy and running your Christmas movies this month.  We have had our Tivo recording so we could save them up and have some to watch on our Christmas wrapping day.

I put up a large folding table in the office and have slowly been bringing out all the purchases from their respective hiding places.  It is the staging area.  When we get everything in this room wrapped, we can call it a day and crawl into bed.  Yep, it will pretty much take us the whole day.

I am wrapping most gifts in my craft paper.  If you missed the blog post on the paper, you can find it here.  I will also be using the letters I made.  If you care to read that blog post, it is here.

As much as possible, I will adorn the packages to the final state.  However, for stacking purposes I won't be able to use some of my bulkier tie on's. Those I will tie on later when I bring the gifts back out to go under the Christmas tree.

We used some traditional name tags.

We used some of the letters I made.

And fortunately, there is someone in my house who does the prettiest hand lettering so she wrote directly on some of the packages.

A few years ago I used a 40% off coupon at Michaels and bought this stamp set. We used it to actually stamp the names right onto the paper.  It was a purchase that I still feel good about.





I wrap with my mom and my two daughters.  Many people ask if I wrap their gifts on this day too.  Well absolutely!!! I simply stash their stuff in my room, box it up in there and then bring it out and wrap the boxes.  If you think people have great anticipation after seeing their names on boxes under the tree in December, you can only guess how it feels to have that anticipation from July thru December.

I also have some wrapping to do for other people who I help with their shopping, so there are more than enough things to carry us through the day.


In all we wrapped about 150 gifts.  This is a huge relief for us when it comes to November and December.  Somehow I manage to still feel very busy during the holiday season but I cannot imagine having all this wrapping looming over me. Here are the final results of our efforts.








And in a stroke of true good fortune, as we were finishing for the day UPS came and delivered my new oragami shelf that I ordered from HSN.  It took us exactly 5 minutes to unpack it and get it set up.  We decided this would be the perfect place to store the packages temporarily.



Even if July is a little early for you, I still recommend setting yourself a day aside to wrap as much as you can before all the parties, family gatherings and the general hectic nature of the holidays kicks in.  If you wrapped in October that would feel good, right?  Or  how about November.......maybe you could shop Black Friday and wrap on that Saturday.  The point is getting some stuff off of your to do list and enjoying the real celebration of the season.

If you are wondering what is in all of these boxes, stay tuned.  I can't share everything but I do have several gift idea posts coming up between now and Christmas to  hopefully help you with ideas for everyone on your list.  And please feel free to share any great ideas you have too.  I can always use a little help myself.....especially with boy gifts.....I think boys are very hard to buy for sometimes.

Wrapping done........pretty soon we will be pulling out the trees. Oh, Summer, and your 100 degree temps.....you will not quench my Christmas Spirit.

See you back here on Friday!